Things to Do Before a Wedding

Congratulations on your future nuptials! You’ve probably heard that a lot, but that doesn’t make the sentiment any less exciting. Now you’re going to spend the next couple of months planning for your perfect day.

With so much to do, planning a wedding can feel like an overwhelming, uphill task. Planning should be fun, not difficult, so we’ll help make it easier. Pull out your wedding planning binder because we have some tips for you today.

If you need a quick, comprehensive list of pre-wedding to-dos, you’re in the right place. Here are eleven things to do before a wedding!

1. Live Together

Living with other people is difficult. And while living with your significant other is different from living with your college roommate, both situations can be difficult to navigate.

Couples often question whether they should move in together before marriage, but many experts recommend doing just that. Living together gives you the opportunity to see each other in your most relaxed and natural states.

It gives you a chance to problem solve and work together. You can find out what you love and what you dislike about each other. And by living together, you can work through that to be a better couple by marriage.

2. Talk About Money

Finances are one of the leading causes of divorce, so it’s important to have this discussion before walking down the aisle. You and your future spouse should be on the same page about money.

Are you going to join your bank accounts, open one together, or keep your own? How will you split the payment of living expenses? Does either of you have 401ks, and what are your plans for retirement?

Are you planning on signing a prenuptial agreement? You can learn more here!

These may not always be top of mind for young couples, but they’re essential questions to ask to prevent issues in the future.

3. Take a Trip Together

Couples love going on trips together, but these fun excursions can be great for your relationship. Like wedding planning, traveling can bring out stressful situations.

It’s a good idea for couples to take travel before getting married. Not only will you make precious memories, but you can also work on problem solving and compromising.

Consider planning an “engagement-moon” to celebrate getting engaged.

4. Compare Your Values

It’s always good to do a value check before committing to spending your lives together. Discuss your beliefs and values, including religion, family, rituals, and politics.

You don’t have to agree on every detail, but try to find common ground. And sometimes, simply understanding where each other is coming from is enough to make common ground.

What you want to be cautious of is if they have any of you value dealbreakers.

5. Talk About Kids

Before getting married, you should absolutely discuss your thoughts on future kids are. Do you want them and how many? What is your family planning strategy like?

Would either of you like to adopt or have a baby via surrogacy? When would you like to start making a family?

These questions are important to be on the same page before you make a lifelong commitment.

6. Discuss Your Goals

What are your personal goals and your goals as a couple? Sometimes people feel like their obligations in marriage can hinder their pursuit of personal growth. But marriage should support both partner’s goals.

So before committing to each other, discuss what else you want to accomplish in life. What goals have you set in your career, financial, and personal life?

Then, throughout your marriage, you can find ways to support and accomplish these goals.

7. Pick Up the Marriage License

Now let’s discuss some tasks to do to make your wedding run smoothly. Don’t forget to research the requirements for a marriage license in your state.

Some require a minimum waiting period between picking up the license and the wedding. Also, be aware that some licenses have expiration dates. It’s best to pick up your marriage license 24 to 72 hours before the wedding.

8. Confirm Your Vendors

No nightmare terrifies a bride more than having an issue with the vendors. So give yourself peace of mind and confirm with all of your vendors before the big day.

Give your big vendors like your career, florist, and venue a call to ensure they have all the details correct. Make sure they have the right location, time, and order.

If you have a wedding planner or coordinator, they can often handle the follow-up calls and confirmations with vendors.

9. Try On All Attire

In the months leading up to your wedding, you’ve probably tried on your wedding attire multiple times to get the right fit. Be sure to do a final fitting with your tailor to ensure all of your clothing is perfect for your big day.

Make sure to wear your wedding shoes to get the right hem length. And remove makeup and accessories to avoid accidental damage.

Also, have your wedding party try their attire to ensure their clothing is perfect for the big day.

10. Practice Your Vows

You’ve probably spent a good amount of time writing your vows. Once you’ve finished, put them away and come back to them. This will allow you to edit with a fresh mind to find any basic errors.

You should also spend time practicing your vows out loud to catch any awkward spots and practice the cadence. Practicing in advance will also help you feel more relaxed when it comes time to recite your vows.

11. Relax and Pamper Yourself

One of the most important things you can do before a wedding is to take time to relax. It’s probably been a stressful few months, and you need to relieve that stress before you walk down the aisle.

Set some time aside to pamper yourself at the spa. Get a massage or a facial. Go for a manicure or a pedicure within two weeks of your big day.

You’ll feel rejuvenated, ready to get married, and excited to spend your life with your future spouse.

The Top Things To Do Before a Wedding

A wedding takes months of planning and coordinating for the day to go just right. It’s not unheard of to get overwhelmed with all the tasks you have to complete and deadlines you have to meet.

If you don’t know where to start when planning, use these tips of the top things to do before a wedding. Make the road to your wedding even more enjoyable by making the planning easier.

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